By I occasionally read articles at the web site “Return of Kings” because I find :self-appointed alpha males
somewhat amusing. Okay, not only amusing. It can be a bit of a turn-on
when I’m observing them from behind safety glass. I’m old enough now,
however, to see that the gap between fantasy and reality is wide enough
to be taken seriously. When I do so, I remember that I’m no fan of
hanging out with or having to deal in any other way with
“alphas.” Almost to a man or woman, I think of them as jerks. I reserve
the right, as I did with jocks and various other categories of “tough”
guys, to change my mind if I ever actually meet a nice one.
But when a man acts or thinks like a jerk, the face, the hair, the
body, and the physical display of anything that might be sexually
arousing goes right out of the safety-glassed window. As hokey as it
sounds, handsomeness eventually has to come out of a man’s eyes.
Leaving aside who is to blame for a moment, it is really frightening
to think that we may be approaching the tensest moment in U.S.-Russian
relations since the Cuban missile crisis.