John The Other said. "In the present day context for young women, particularly in college, particularly progressives, is having a story of being raped, is one of the points of esteem, like a coming of age. I don't mean actually being raped, I don't mean being a victim of a violent crime, I mean having a story. It's one of the things you need for approval in the very fucked up world of a 20 year old girl. That means if you are a 20 year old man, you have the cross hairs on you."