By It
All Balances Out—just four words. Sounds simple, but it’s not. It is, I
believe, a phrase that best describes gender reality throughout history
and it’s a phrase that might cause the modern-day MRA to,
shall we say, raise an eyebrow. I’m well aware that men suffer
comparison with women in virtually every measure of well-being. But I
respectfully request that my fellow MRAs hear me out on this. What
you’re about to read demonstrates a strategy for getting our message
across to the mainstream. In part, it’s crafted for “straights,” those
who’ve not taken the “red pill.” How do we reach them? How do we send our message in a manner that is at least relatively
palatable to mainstream sensibilities? How do we penetrate the “lace
curtain” in a manner that’s healthy and constructive? How do we move
gender politics into a new and more evolved phase?
I present to you now how I use the concept of It All Balances Out to further our cause.
It All Balances Out
The underlying principle that pervades and unifies every aspect of my book can be expressed in a single word: balance. In defiance, the book’s “radical” premise is simply this: In the benefits enjoyed and in the liabilities suffered, in the power and in the victimization, in the freedoms and the constraints, the good and the bad, It All Balances Out between Woman and Man—and it always has.
Historically, the gender system has certainly been less than perfect, inflicting injustices on both sexes alike. But these injustices have come out even. Ours has been an imperfect yet essentially balanced gender system, except for one thing—the highly imbalanced gender belief system. If I could, I would shift our entire gender belief system away from feminism’s MalePower/FemaleVictimization paradigm and toward a balanced gender paradigm.
I present to you now how I use the concept of It All Balances Out to further our cause.
It All Balances Out
The underlying principle that pervades and unifies every aspect of my book can be expressed in a single word: balance. In defiance, the book’s “radical” premise is simply this: In the benefits enjoyed and in the liabilities suffered, in the power and in the victimization, in the freedoms and the constraints, the good and the bad, It All Balances Out between Woman and Man—and it always has.
Historically, the gender system has certainly been less than perfect, inflicting injustices on both sexes alike. But these injustices have come out even. Ours has been an imperfect yet essentially balanced gender system, except for one thing—the highly imbalanced gender belief system. If I could, I would shift our entire gender belief system away from feminism’s MalePower/FemaleVictimization paradigm and toward a balanced gender paradigm.