By : Response to A Gentleman’s Guide to Rape Culture
If you are a man, you are part of rape culture.
Fuck you cunt. Rape exists, even amongst animals, but there is no such thing as Rape Culture.
Culture is defined as “the sum total of ways of living built up by a group of human beings and transmitted from one generation to another.” The urge to Rape is not transmitted from one generation to another.
As far as I can tell, rape is a universal biological phenomenon. There is no systematic effort to teach men to rape women. On the contrary, there is a systematic effort to teach men to protect women – there is a Protection Culture, not a Rape Culture. “Protect the Women” is one of the most fundamental storylines in film, television and books. “Protect the Women” is the catchcry of feminists over and over again, in which they exploit the protective instincts of men for their advantage. See #HeForShe for example.
This guide is more correctly named A Gentleman’s Guide to Pandering to Women’s Fear Culture.
The purpose of the Rape Culture concept is to fill women with fear and dread, thus driving them to feminism.
Have you ever heard the word “swolesting.” It’s the phenomenon weightlifters experience of women groping their swoles (swollen muscles) as they move through a crowd. Women are just as capable of being sexually aggressive.
The reason why rape is considered such a crime, and why women feel such a revulsion for it, is that historically, the rape of a woman had a very real chance of leaving her carrying a child of inferior DNA and without any parental investment on the part of the rapist. Rape used to have lifelong material consequences.
The equivalent crime for men is paternity fraud, in which a man is deceived into making a parental investment in a child that is not his. Studies have shown that the rate of paternity fraud or misattributed paternity is 1 to 2%, and as high as 33% when paternity is disputed, and alarmingly a recent UK study put the rate at “between 5 and 27% in women under 30.” Women are designed in a way that facilitates deception. Unlike most mammals, human females don’t go into estrus when they are fertile – their fertility state is hidden. This is called Sexual Crypsis; it creates uncertainty as to who the father is, and appears to be an evolutionary adaptation to enable cuckolding. Like other sexual crypsis species, the males are divided into two classes – DNA-providers and resource providers. The females get impregnated by DNA-providers while using resource-providers for parental investment – from the female perspective, what’s not to like about that deal.
Interestingly enough, the distinction between DNA-providers and resource providers that women impose on men correlates roughly with the difference between bad boys and good boys. Women select for anti-social traits in their bad boy DNA-providers (ask me for papers), and strangely enough, most rapists come from amongst the bad boys. So, by their sexual preference for bad boys, women play a role in perpetuating the very thing they say they fear and hate. The key to understanding women is to ignore their words and observe their actions.
Women need and use violent men. They sexually select for strength and aggression, and as mothers, they play a role in developing those extreme traits to make boys better warriors (by inoculating their male children against pain via circumcision, and by beating their male children more than their female children, for example). And then indoctrinating and domesticating them (e.g. “never hit a girl”, “always respect women”, etc.). This indoctrination is not always successful, and when it’s not, our rapists and wife beaters emerge.
If you were a black man having to jump through the same hoops to make white people comfortable, you would be angry at the racism of it, and rightly so.
You have surrendered the last dregs of your masculinity to these fainting cowards. You are a man, inheritor of a tradition that created almost everything good in this world. Be a man, don’t be cowed by these cry-bullies.
When a woman is afraid, or sad, or whatever she is feeling, let her deal with it herself – this is the kindest and most generous thing you can do for her. If you help her, you are a crutch, enabling her to continue her dependence.
I deal with it by taking personal responsibility for my safety, by studying martial arts and lifting weights. Even after a lifetime of study, there are still men I could not defeat in a physical confrontation. There are bigger and smaller men; there are stronger and weaker men. That’s life, deal with it like everyone else does.
I want to tell you a story.
When I was in my 20s, I lived in a house with several roommates, one of whom, Heath, used to live in the room above mine. Heath was a big guy, with a tiny girlfriend – he was 6′ and 100kg, she was 4′ and maybe 40kg.
One early morning, I was resting up in my room with some friends after a long night of partying, and we could hear Heath arguing with his girlfriend upstairs.
Soon enough the screaming and yelling stopped, and we could hear furniture being smashed. We thought he was killing her and ran up to stop it.
It turned out that it was her killing him – she had been the state judo champion at one point.
If you are living in fear of violence, spend some time learning how to deal with – I recommend Brazilian jiu-jitsu for women. 2 to 3 years of 1 hour daily practice, and you will be able to defeat virtually any untrained man. Trained men are the least of your worries – someone with the self-discipline to become trained, is very unlikely to bother you.
Plus, you will learn how to fall correctly, and this will help you avoid fractures when you are older, and your bones become brittle.
More importantly, because you know you can defend yourself, predators and monsters will sense that and find easier targets.
There! I have just given you the best advice you will ever get on this subject. It’s something you can do to improve your life. Will you follow my advice? Or will you continue on the path of whining, nagging and complaining in the hopes that someone else will change the environment for you? I’m betting on the latter.
Take personal responsibility for your feelings, otherwise, fuck right off, because, in a Zombie apocalypse, I will happily trade you for a gun and a case of ammunition. By making your feelings the responsibility of others, you become a burden and liability.
I suggest you read “The Nigger of the Narcissus” by Joseph Conrad.
Did you know that the smaller breeds of dogs were bred as alarms for travellers? You would carry the yappy little dog with you, and when you set up camp, the dog would alert you to any dangers by yapping. Women are like little yappy dogs, bred to alert men to hazards. In the absence of danger, the dog will yap at anything, its instincts no longer relevant. When I was living in the DR, my friend Samantha got two yappy little dogs. The dogs would bark all day and all night – they were broken little animals, their purpose and instincts no longer appropriate or relevant. Samantha moved to a new house, where the dogs barked all day and all night. Soon after her move, one of her new neighbors broke their necks. Who can blame them?
Men, not just modern men, but all men throughout time, have had to deal with danger and fear as a pervasive part of life. We have the emotional discipline to deal with it, and we develop that throughout life.
Should men judge other men this way or men of other races or nationalities? Do I go through life assuming every man might rob or assault me – they might, but I don’t worry about it too much. I take necessary precautions, I don’t antagonise people, and I have pretty good instincts when it comes to avoiding trouble. I treat other men with a healthy respect.
“But you don’t know what it’s like to be a woman” I hear you say. Very true, men have no idea what it’s like to be as safe as a woman. We don’t know what it’s like to be three times less likely to be murdered, and we don’t know what it’s like to be two times less likely to be beaten up. We don’t know what it’s like to have nearly half the population ready to protect us.
As a damsel in distress, the vast majority of men are conditioned and indoctrinated to assist and keep you safe, even to the point of sacrificing their lives. Not me, 23 cents in the dollar is not worth risking my life for. When I see a woman in distress, and I feel my protective instincts kicking in, I remind myself of the pervasive misandry amongst women: that women see men as little more that labour saving devices, support mechanisms, bodyguards, and beasts of burden. I remind myself just what shitty people women can be, and then the protective instinct moment passes, and I get on with my life.
As men, the kindest and most generous thing we can do for women is to leave them to their own devices. Only by denying them any male support will they be forced to become fully actualized human beings. This might take a few generations, but the time of sex robots is coming, and when it does, the full scope of how little most women bring to the table will be revealed. I am confident that the vast majority of men will give up on relations with women if their sexual needs are otherwise satisfied. This will provoke an existential crisis for women.
Bad Dima is living between cultures, perpetual traveller, itinerant engineer. Warrior and philosopher. Blog is at medium.com/@aPackOfVVankers
If you are a man, you are part of rape culture.
Fuck you cunt. Rape exists, even amongst animals, but there is no such thing as Rape Culture.
Culture is defined as “the sum total of ways of living built up by a group of human beings and transmitted from one generation to another.” The urge to Rape is not transmitted from one generation to another.
As far as I can tell, rape is a universal biological phenomenon. There is no systematic effort to teach men to rape women. On the contrary, there is a systematic effort to teach men to protect women – there is a Protection Culture, not a Rape Culture. “Protect the Women” is one of the most fundamental storylines in film, television and books. “Protect the Women” is the catchcry of feminists over and over again, in which they exploit the protective instincts of men for their advantage. See #HeForShe for example.This guide is more correctly named A Gentleman’s Guide to Pandering to Women’s Fear Culture.
The purpose of the Rape Culture concept is to fill women with fear and dread, thus driving them to feminism.
Rape isn’t exclusively committed by men. Women aren’t the only victims — men rape men, women rape men — but what makes rape a men’s problem, our problem, is the fact that men commit 99 percent of reported rapes.Since rape is often defined as unwanted penetration by a penis, in those jurisdictions, by definition, all rape is committed by men. There are statistics that more lesbians as a percentage, are sexually assaulted by other lesbians than men sexually assault women.
Have you ever heard the word “swolesting.” It’s the phenomenon weightlifters experience of women groping their swoles (swollen muscles) as they move through a crowd. Women are just as capable of being sexually aggressive.
The reason why rape is considered such a crime, and why women feel such a revulsion for it, is that historically, the rape of a woman had a very real chance of leaving her carrying a child of inferior DNA and without any parental investment on the part of the rapist. Rape used to have lifelong material consequences.
The equivalent crime for men is paternity fraud, in which a man is deceived into making a parental investment in a child that is not his. Studies have shown that the rate of paternity fraud or misattributed paternity is 1 to 2%, and as high as 33% when paternity is disputed, and alarmingly a recent UK study put the rate at “between 5 and 27% in women under 30.” Women are designed in a way that facilitates deception. Unlike most mammals, human females don’t go into estrus when they are fertile – their fertility state is hidden. This is called Sexual Crypsis; it creates uncertainty as to who the father is, and appears to be an evolutionary adaptation to enable cuckolding. Like other sexual crypsis species, the males are divided into two classes – DNA-providers and resource providers. The females get impregnated by DNA-providers while using resource-providers for parental investment – from the female perspective, what’s not to like about that deal.
Interestingly enough, the distinction between DNA-providers and resource providers that women impose on men correlates roughly with the difference between bad boys and good boys. Women select for anti-social traits in their bad boy DNA-providers (ask me for papers), and strangely enough, most rapists come from amongst the bad boys. So, by their sexual preference for bad boys, women play a role in perpetuating the very thing they say they fear and hate. The key to understanding women is to ignore their words and observe their actions.
Women need and use violent men. They sexually select for strength and aggression, and as mothers, they play a role in developing those extreme traits to make boys better warriors (by inoculating their male children against pain via circumcision, and by beating their male children more than their female children, for example). And then indoctrinating and domesticating them (e.g. “never hit a girl”, “always respect women”, etc.). This indoctrination is not always successful, and when it’s not, our rapists and wife beaters emerge.
When I cross a parking lot at night and see a woman ahead of me, I do whatever I feel is appropriate to make her aware of me so that A) I don’t startle her. B) she has time to make herself feel safe/comfortable and. C) if it’s possible, I can approach in a way that’s clearly friendly, to let her know I’m not a threat. I do this because I’m a man.No, you do this because you are a male feminist simp pandering to women’s feelings. Women are taught to turn their feelings into an externality, a kind of emotional pollution that men are expected to clean up after. You are facilitating their continued weakness and helplessness.
If you were a black man having to jump through the same hoops to make white people comfortable, you would be angry at the racism of it, and rightly so.
You have surrendered the last dregs of your masculinity to these fainting cowards. You are a man, inheritor of a tradition that created almost everything good in this world. Be a man, don’t be cowed by these cry-bullies.
When a woman is afraid, or sad, or whatever she is feeling, let her deal with it herself – this is the kindest and most generous thing you can do for her. If you help her, you are a crutch, enabling her to continue her dependence.
Now, I stand about a finger of tequila under six feet. I work out and would say I’m in decent shape, which means when I’m out alone at night, I rarely ever fear for my safety. Many men know exactly what I mean. Most women have no idea what that feels like — to go wherever you want in the world, at any time of day or night, and feel you won’t have a problem. In fact, many women have the exact opposite experience.As a 6′ tall 80kg man, and only 65kg as an 18-year-old, and routinely mixing it up with aggressive and drunk men far larger than me, I am frequently exposed to threats of violence, probably more often than any woman could imagine.
I deal with it by taking personal responsibility for my safety, by studying martial arts and lifting weights. Even after a lifetime of study, there are still men I could not defeat in a physical confrontation. There are bigger and smaller men; there are stronger and weaker men. That’s life, deal with it like everyone else does.
I want to tell you a story.
When I was in my 20s, I lived in a house with several roommates, one of whom, Heath, used to live in the room above mine. Heath was a big guy, with a tiny girlfriend – he was 6′ and 100kg, she was 4′ and maybe 40kg.
One early morning, I was resting up in my room with some friends after a long night of partying, and we could hear Heath arguing with his girlfriend upstairs.
Soon enough the screaming and yelling stopped, and we could hear furniture being smashed. We thought he was killing her and ran up to stop it.
It turned out that it was her killing him – she had been the state judo champion at one point.
If you are living in fear of violence, spend some time learning how to deal with – I recommend Brazilian jiu-jitsu for women. 2 to 3 years of 1 hour daily practice, and you will be able to defeat virtually any untrained man. Trained men are the least of your worries – someone with the self-discipline to become trained, is very unlikely to bother you.
Plus, you will learn how to fall correctly, and this will help you avoid fractures when you are older, and your bones become brittle.
More importantly, because you know you can defend yourself, predators and monsters will sense that and find easier targets.
There! I have just given you the best advice you will ever get on this subject. It’s something you can do to improve your life. Will you follow my advice? Or will you continue on the path of whining, nagging and complaining in the hopes that someone else will change the environment for you? I’m betting on the latter.
Take personal responsibility for your feelings, otherwise, fuck right off, because, in a Zombie apocalypse, I will happily trade you for a gun and a case of ammunition. By making your feelings the responsibility of others, you become a burden and liability.
I suggest you read “The Nigger of the Narcissus” by Joseph Conrad.
As modern men we must seek out danger. We choose adventures and extreme sports in order to feel like we’re in jeopardy. We make games of our vulnerability. That’s how differently men see the world from women.Yes, the culture/genetics of women is to live in fear and to whine and nag until men deal with it. Fear is a turn-on for many women; it seems to be an integral part of being female. If there were absolutely no danger at all, it would be a profoundly disturbing experience for women, like being in an anechoic chamber or sensory deprivation pod. In the absence of real dangers, women would hallucinate dangers, and become afraid of their shadows (Note: there is a youtube video of a feminist afraid of her own shadow). The best thing men can do for women is not to pander to their irrational fears. We must treat them like children afraid of the monsters in the closet.
Did you know that the smaller breeds of dogs were bred as alarms for travellers? You would carry the yappy little dog with you, and when you set up camp, the dog would alert you to any dangers by yapping. Women are like little yappy dogs, bred to alert men to hazards. In the absence of danger, the dog will yap at anything, its instincts no longer relevant. When I was living in the DR, my friend Samantha got two yappy little dogs. The dogs would bark all day and all night – they were broken little animals, their purpose and instincts no longer appropriate or relevant. Samantha moved to a new house, where the dogs barked all day and all night. Soon after her move, one of her new neighbors broke their necks. Who can blame them?
Men, not just modern men, but all men throughout time, have had to deal with danger and fear as a pervasive part of life. We have the emotional discipline to deal with it, and we develop that throughout life.
Must our worst example judge all men? Really? Is the same true of women? Is it ok if I say something like “all women are remorseless resource appropriation machines”, or would that be unacceptable stereotyping, generalisation and misogyny because it makes women look bad? I guess feminists get a pussy pass on this. Fuck you asswipe; you are the worst kind of human being there is – a hypocrite, a gender traitor, and feminist quisling. Have you considered getting gender reassignment, because we men don’t want stand next to you while pissing anymore.What a piece of work is a man, how noble in reason,how infinite in faculties, in form and moving,how express and admirable in action, how like an angel in apprehension,how like a god!Because when it comes to assessing a man, whatever one man is capable of, a woman must presume you are capable of. Unfortunately, that means all men must be judged by our worst example. If you think that sort of stereotyping is bullshit, how do you treat a snake you come across in the wild?
Should men judge other men this way or men of other races or nationalities? Do I go through life assuming every man might rob or assault me – they might, but I don’t worry about it too much. I take necessary precautions, I don’t antagonise people, and I have pretty good instincts when it comes to avoiding trouble. I treat other men with a healthy respect.
“But you don’t know what it’s like to be a woman” I hear you say. Very true, men have no idea what it’s like to be as safe as a woman. We don’t know what it’s like to be three times less likely to be murdered, and we don’t know what it’s like to be two times less likely to be beaten up. We don’t know what it’s like to have nearly half the population ready to protect us.
As a damsel in distress, the vast majority of men are conditioned and indoctrinated to assist and keep you safe, even to the point of sacrificing their lives. Not me, 23 cents in the dollar is not worth risking my life for. When I see a woman in distress, and I feel my protective instincts kicking in, I remind myself of the pervasive misandry amongst women: that women see men as little more that labour saving devices, support mechanisms, bodyguards, and beasts of burden. I remind myself just what shitty people women can be, and then the protective instinct moment passes, and I get on with my life.
As men, the kindest and most generous thing we can do for women is to leave them to their own devices. Only by denying them any male support will they be forced to become fully actualized human beings. This might take a few generations, but the time of sex robots is coming, and when it does, the full scope of how little most women bring to the table will be revealed. I am confident that the vast majority of men will give up on relations with women if their sexual needs are otherwise satisfied. This will provoke an existential crisis for women.
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