Via Daniel, J4MB: #TriggerWarning – a devious and deceitful smear piece misrepresenting both Peterson and the MHRM.
By feminist James S. Fell: Jordan Peterson. Ugh. Just … Fuck This Guy.
And
by that, I mean no one should ever fuck this guy. Especially now he’s
gone full male supremacist, spewing some “enforced monogamy” bullshit
because he thinks the way to stop violent attacks is to ensure equality
of access to vaginas via societal pressure to slut shame women into
becoming a man’s sexual property.
What’s a “men’s rights activist”? For starters, many MRA organization have been
deemed hate groups.
In short, they believe “feminism swung the pendulum too far the other
way,” and now men are the true oppressed and we need to fight back.
And Jordan Peterson essentially outed himself as MRA to the
New York Times.
Much
has been written about Jordan Peterson, a significant amount negative.
The most thorough exposing of the depths of Peterson’s dumbfuckery is
this piece
in Current Affairs. But now we have an
exclusive interview with Peterson
in NYT that gets the stupid straight from the demagogue’s mouth.
Of course, the Peterson faithful will say he’s been
quoted out of context
and you need to watch 500 hours of YouTube videos in order to truly realize his genius.
Is there some genius to Peterson? Meh.
He says, “grow the hell up, accept some responsibility, live an honorable life.”
Peterson told this to the NYT reporter, and it’s not bad advice. There
could be more stoicism in the world.
In this, Peterson and I are like-minded. For years, I’ve advised people to strive to be better, become more.
My most recent post
was about the quest for greatness and the mindset required to find a purpose in life you can be passionate about.
Beyond that, Peterson and I diverge.
I’ve written extensively about men’s rights “activists.”
My piece about them
for TIME Magazine
blew
up, even getting a mention on CNN Television. I referred to the men’s
rights movement as “a toxic slew of misogyny,” because it is. Their
hatred of women is on proud display.
And Peterson has, perhaps unwittingly, revealed himself as an MRA to the
New York Times.
I’d long had my suspicions, and I’m not saying he goes to meetings, but if it walks like an MRA, and quacks like an MRA …
From the NYT piece:
Violent
attacks are what happens when men do not have partners, Mr. Peterson
says, and society needs to work to make sure those men are married.
Bullshit. As I showed in
this piece,
women are most likely to be stalked, beaten, or raped by an intimate
partner. Boys need to be raised to not see violence as a way to solve
problems or get what they want.
More Peterson bullshit:
“He
was angry at God because women were rejecting him,” Mr. Peterson says
of the Toronto killer. “The cure for that is enforced monogamy. That’s
actually why monogamy emerges.”
Mr.
Peterson does not pause when he says this. Enforced monogamy is, to
him, simply a rational solution. Otherwise women will all only go for
the most high-status men, he explains, and that couldn’t make either
gender happy in the end.
“Half the men fail,” he says, meaning that they don’t procreate. “And no one cares about the men who fail.”
The Toronto killer mentioned was an “incel,” a so-call “involuntary celibate”
I wrote about here. They’re an extremist faction of MRA.
MRAs have languished in relative obscurity. The primary MRA website, A Voice for Men, is overrun with sexist trash,
founded by a garbage human and deadbeat dad. They had a men’s rights conference in 2014 that was
such an underwhelming failure
populated by overtly sexists losers that the following year it was cancelled.
Peterson is changing the plot, helping to take men’s rights mainstream while not
directly proclaiming himself to be one of them.
He’s changing the plot because he’s not the
typical MRA loser,
and he’s less overt in his misogyny. He’s a successful professor of
psychology who taught at Harvard. He wraps his defense of men and the
patriarchy in mysticism, outdated psychological theories, and a
misreading of a hodgepodge of philosophical thought.
Beyond the excellent
Current Affairs piece
linked earlier, if you want the excruciating details of how incredibly
full of shit this guy is, here are some writings in major publications
by knowledgeable people:
link link link link link link link link link link link link link link link.
Of course, there are plenty in the media who laud the man. But as James Hamblin, a physician and senior editor for
The Atlantic,
recently tweeted, “The safest route to popularity in media is telling powerful people they’re oppressed.”
It worked for Milo. It worked
Mike Cernovich. It worked for Trump.
My
biggest issue with Peterson is how he professes to help the poor,
victimized white males via the promotion of bigoted ideas. In
my first piece about Peterson, I focused on two things: His opposition to bill C-16, and his denial that white privilege exists.
Going
through Peterson’s largely mindless drivel is about as much fun as
having a kidney removed via your urethra. Which is why, despite numerous
writings and YouTube videos, he rightly languished in relative
obscurity for years prior to a signature event: the move to make bill
C-16 part of Canadian law.
As
I’ve written before,
most people don’t understand what free speech really entails. That
piece also provides research regarding how those who hold bigoted
beliefs have lower intelligence scores (just, you know, FYI). Which
might explain why those who jumped hard on the Peterson train for his
opposition to the bill couldn’t see his position for the utter bullshit
it was.
The
bill was about adding protection for gender identity under Canadian
human rights law. Peterson made a stink that this was about “compelled
speech” and that people who didn’t use someone’s preferred pronoun
might go to prison. This despite the fact the bill has
nothing to do with pronouns. (Read the bill here.)
Yeah,
no. Legal experts weighed in to shed light on the ridiculousness of
Peterson’s argument. It’s considered hate speech to say, “all black
people should be killed.” The new law puts gender identity in the same
category, so it’s also hate speech to say, “all trans people should be
killed.”
It can also prevent discrimination in the workplace based on gender identity, which is a thing that happens.
I
had a lengthy and heartbreaking interview with a transgender woman for
my next book. She was raised in a small town as a conservative catholic.
Imagine what it was like for her growing up.
Working
as a nurse, after finding the courage to go against family and church
to transition, many in her place of work refused to acknowledge it. She
was derided, referred to by her old name and continuously called “he”.
Eventually, she felt the need to get away from the discrimination by
moving to another town to work for a more enlightened and accepting
institution.
Did she not deserve some protection against such bigotry? The
Globe and Mail
reports,
“A 2014 study found that transgender and gender non-conforming people
who were repeatedly and intentionally misgendered at work were 37 per
cent more likely to have attempted suicide.”
But
there are a lot of people who think political correctness has run amok
and want to be able to say whatever dafuq they want without fear of
consequences. Peterson made it seem like refusal to use “zhe” or “zher”
pronouns (the above
Globe and Mail
piece
states: “In their lifetime, the average Canadian will encounter no one
who uses a neo-pronoun.”) could land someone in prison. Like I said,
it’s bullshit, but “stoic” Peterson
was stoic in his resolve to show bigotry against transgender people.
Ka-boom.
Instant fame. And much of the new fan base was people who embrace such
bigotry. They saw Peterson as one of their own: a holy warrior against
liberalism. The 50s were the good old days, when white men ruled with an
iron fist and everyone else knew their place.
What does this have to do with MRA?
As I wrote
here,
MRAs don’t give much of a shit about issues that affect men. Rather,
they deviously coopt them for the sole purpose of spreading anti-woman
hatred, just as opposition to bill C-16 was really about hatred of
transgender people. It wasn’t presented as bigotry, but such illogical
twisting of reality makes it clear that’s their motivation.
A former close friend and mentor of Peterson
wrote in the
Toronto Star of how he now considers Peterson “dangerous.”
It
is a scathing exposé by the man who fought to get Peterson his job at
the University of Toronto, and let Peterson and his family live with him
for five months while Jordan’s house was being renovated.
Peterson shared the article on his Facebook page, writing only “Bernie Schiff, my good friend…”
The
most popular comments give insight into his fan base. Look at how many
likes this one got. Peterson has let the comment stand unchallenged by
him. He appears okay with this type of anti-trans nonsense being on his
Facebook page.
Peterson’s quotes in the recent NYT piece reveal him as the champion of the incel with his enforced monogamy bullshit. The
Los Angeles Times reported
the recent school shooter in Texas had been harassing a girl at school
for months, not taking no for an answer, and specifically targeted her
for rejecting him.
It
goes beyond his feelings of rejection; he used a gun to claim her for
himself. He took her life like it was a trophy to ensure she would never
belong to anyone else, including herself. That is the true horror of
the crime he committed. He treated her like a commodity to be consumed,
which is the way incels—and perhaps even Jordan Peterson—view women.
Like
he sympathized with the Toronto killer, will Peterson proclaim all this
murderer needed was enforced monogamy to prevent him from committing a
massacre?
But
men just can’t control themselves, right? Distribute that sex and all
will be chill. But don’t appear sexy in the workplace. Wait, what?
In
this video interview, Peterson provides additional insight into his archaic thoughts:
- “Things are deteriorating very rapidly at the moment in terms of relationships between men and women. We don’t know if men and women can work together successfully.” (at 0:13). Oh, for fuck’s sake. Someone needs to watch the first couple of seasons of Mad Men if he thinks things are deteriorating. My mother worked in a bank in the early 60s. I asked her if that show was how things were. She said that’s exactly how they were. He just can’t handle that it’s becoming more difficult for men to act like total horndogs at work. To him, that’s “deteriorating.”
- “we don’t know how to have an adult conversation about sex.” (at 3:20) No, YOU don’t know how.
- The interviewer asked at 5:05: “Do you think men and women can work in the workplace together?” His reply was, “I don’t know.” Then 20 seconds later he says of men and women working together: “We don’t know what the rules are.” Uh, how about don’t sexually harass women as a rule? Nope. Peterson has a different idea, saying, “Here’s a rule: how about no makeup in the workplace? Why should you wear makeup in the workplace? Isn’t that sexually provocative?” Then: “Why do you make your lips red? Because they turn red during sexual arousal. That’s why. Why do you put rouge on your cheeks? Same reason.” He then said high heels are “to exaggerate sexual attractiveness.” Then says, “I’m not saying people shouldn’t use sexual displays in the workplace.” THEN WHY SAY ALL THAT BULLSHIT IN THE FIRST PLACE? And just to make sure you know how he feels, he repeats at 9:48: “Makeup is sexual display. That’s what it’s for.” NO IT FUCKING ISN’T! HAVE YOU EVER TALKED TO A WOMAN ABOUT WHY THEY WEAR MAKEUP? THEY DO IT FOR A LOT OF DIFFERENT REASONS! Yes, some women will wear it as a “sexual display,” but you cannot categorized all women that way. And you can’t say women aren’t allowed to wear it at work because men can’t control their penises if a woman has red lips. I can’t believe people idolize such idiocy.
- At 9:30 the interviewer asked if a woman doesn’t want to be sexually harassed in the workplace, is she being a hypocrite if she wears makeup. Peterson replied with, “Yeah. I do think that.”
- Repeating what he said earlier, at 15:40: “I don’t think we’re capable of having an adult conversation about it (sex).”
Fucking hell.
Do
you know how many women, including my wife, have told me how hot they
think a man looks in a nice suit? Do we also ban men from wearing suits
in the workplace because it’s a “sexual display”?
Tabatha Southey
asked
in Maclean’s Magazine, “Is Jordan Peterson the stupid man’s smart person?” The
Current Affairs piece elucidated it was more that Peterson attracted
desperate men.
I think it’s a bit of both. I linked an article of mine exposing how
bigots are often less intelligent, but it can go beyond that, which is
why Peterson’s “debunking” of white privilege got so much traction.
White
privilege isn’t the best term, because there are plenty of white folks
living in desperate circumstances who don’t feel the least bit
privileged. Yet their unfortunate circumstances aren’t due to them being
white. Rather, on average, it is
not being white that can bring all sorts of
disadvantages.
Nevertheless,
it’s not as easy to be a white man today as it was in the 50s. In other
words, things aren’t as wildly unfair as they used to be in their
favor.
For
the group who has always been on top, movements towards equality can
seem like oppression. Peterson has milked those feelings for a fortune
in book sales, speaking engagements, and a high revenue stream via
Patreon.
Not
everyone who loves Peterson is a bigot, an idiot, or desperate. But
there is no denying such people make up a considerable part of his fan
base. As was pointed out in the
Current Affairs piece, the commenters on Peterson’s videos often say horrible, violent things about women, and these get hundreds of upvotes.
If
you are a fan of Jordan Peterson, and don’t hold bigoted or sexist
beliefs, then does it not concern you that so many people who adore him
have these beliefs?
Another
example of Peterson fans’ toxicity is in their reaction to my first
article about him. I’ve long been an exposer of various types of
bullshit in my years of writing, and have come under relentless attack
for doing so from cancer “cure” frauds, anti-vaccine and anti-GMO
crusaders, racists, sexists, gun nuts, sellers of weight loss snake oil,
Jillian Michaels fans, keto diet zealots …
My first piece about Peterson took the James Fell bashing to a whole new level. A parody Facebook profile was
made as “Fames Jell,” and dozens of people friended it. In the week it
was active, numerous homophobic and racist jokes were made with the
intent of maligning my character for having dared to write about
Peterson in an unflattering light.
Like Mark Twain (might have) said: “It’s easier to fool people than convince them they’ve been fooled.”
Peterson
is considered some kind of self-help guru, but what is he really
helping with? For some, he’s helping confirm their biases against women,
trans people, and other marginalized groups by alleging political
correctness has gone crazy (I agree there are people who take things too
far, and gave an example of this in my previous Peterson article) and
that white men are the true oppressed.
On that note, Desmond Tutu said, “If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.”
This
is why even more annoying than his diehard fanbase are the
fence-sitting Peterson apologists who, fearing backlash from the former,
proclaim he’s not
all bad. He gives
some good
information. This is reminiscent of Bruce Lee, who said, “Absorb what
is useful. Reject what is useless. Add what is essentially your own.”
The problem with Peterson is that it’s not “useless” information
intermixed with the bit of good, but downright toxic proclamations that
can sway people towards bigotry.
Perhaps
Peterson helped you be more stoic, but what kind of stoic? How many
toxic anti-woman and anti-trans and other bigoted ideas did he sneak in
with it? Author Conner Habib
recently tweeted
that Peterson isn’t “just fulfilling a need for poor, lost men.” Rather,
“he is stimulating their rage and longing first and THEN fulfilling the
need he has created or exacerbated.”
Did Peterson
really help you, or did he implant or affirm some prejudices? There is a reason why
one reviewer
of Peterson’s 12 Rules referred to it as “a self-help book for assholes.”
Don’t be an asshole.
You don’t need him. There are better people to seek life
advice from. If it’s stoicism you’re after, I’m a fan of striving in the face of adversity. I’ve written about
the art of sucking it up, have a popular motivational piece called
The Exerciser’s Creed
about not quitting, and have examined the science behind finding your way past obstacles to success.
I’ve been
critical of Tony Robbins,
but I’d far rather see you seek guidance from him than Peterson. Tony’s
followers don’t have a tendency towards bigotry, and actively fought
back against their guru when he challenged #metoo. Sam Harris has had
his share of douchey moments, and yet I think there can still be value found in some of his teachings.
But Peterson crosses a line into unapologetic toxicity. Stoicism is supposed to be taken
beyond the self.
Stoics value justice, and that we should seek not just to triumph for
ourselves, but for the benefit of the collective. From that link: “It
takes courage and self-control not to turn the other way when you see
gender-based discrimination at work, especially when your promotion
depends on appeasing a bully.”
Seek better mentors.
I’ll reaffirm how Peterson came to be internationally recognized, being “stoic” in his hatred of trans activism.
But how stoic is that?
Oh,
someone might one day want me to use a word I don’t like so I’m going
on a tirade to decry one of the most maligned and marginalized
populations on the planet with a shockingly high suicide rate because
one day my feelings might get a little bit hurt.
That’s some display of manhood.
Seek to help and protect those who need it most.
FUCK Jordan Peterson.
In the
New York Times,
Peterson
says, “The masculine spirit is under assault.” It sure is. BY HIM! He
spews nonsense like “order is masculine” and “chaos is feminine.” What
kind of moron believes this bullshit? An MRA, that’s who. In the same
piece he suggests men are in charge because we’re better at it,
proclaiming, “The people who hold that our culture is an oppressive
patriarchy, they don’t want to admit that the current hierarchy might be
predicated on competence.” Uh, no. Men have always been in charge
because, as I wrote
here, brutality has been rewarded throughout history. The greater size and strength of men has enabled my gender to rule
unchallenged since the dawn of humanity,
much to society’s detriment.
It’s reinforcing the
parts of masculinity that are toxic, while undermining more
positive, tender, supportive masculinity.
Richard
Poplak accurately portrayed that Peterson thinks, “the world is a hard
zero-summy type of place, with alphas and betas and gammas all vying for
the same hot chicks.” And it’s the same kind of bullshit you’ll see
spewed time and again from the men’s rights crowd, which is why MRAs
love Jordan Peterson.
We are witnessing the JP train go off the rails. Jump off now before it crashes.
Life is not a zero-sum game.
For you to win does not mean others must lose.
James
S. Fell, MBA, writes for the Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune,
Women’s Health, Men’s Health, AskMen, the Guardian, TIME Magazine and
many other feminist publications.Source
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