By This is the first explicitly, angry, anti-feminist post I wrote on this blog. There are a few things I would do differently, three years later.
I’d make it clear that by ‘kitchen-bitch’, I don’t mean men who are are househusbands or who feel at home in the kitchen. I mean men who genuinely think that women are always right and must be obeyed. I hadn’t heard the term ‘mangina’ when I wrote it, but that is a more evocative expression.
I’d also make it clear that while I think gender is innate, it’s also a spectrum. There are lots of men with stereotypical feminine qualities, and lots of women with stereotypical masculine qualities, and the fight I am engaged in is to let everyone be who they honestly are. I object strenuously to feminism trying to impose femininity on men and masculinity on women. Just let people be who they are, dammit! Is that so hard?
Apparently yes.
There’s a medical solution for that…..
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2183953/Oxytocin-Nose-happiness-Doctors-discover-nasal-spray-stop-couples-having-heated-arguments.html
Oxytocin spray is designed to make men more like women. And it fits perfectly into the cultural milieu forty years of feminism has wrought. Feminists don’t hate men they can drug into being more like women. They don’t hate men who think, act, speak, engage and behave like women. They don’t hate men who defer to their wishes, embrace their world view, validate their shitty decisions. They just hate men who are still men.
You can see it play out in schools in particular. God help the little boy who wants to jump and run and compete and touch and feel and interact with his world rather than sit quietly at a table with Isabella and Phoebe learning his ABCs. That little boy will be diagnosed with some bullshit “disorder” that basically translates into “typical little boy” and drugged into submission. By a largely female teaching staff and his mother of course. Daddy is probably a kitchen bitch who thinks everything Mommy does is right, if he’s even around at all.
Boys who grow up in a culture that venerates all feminine qualities and denigrates all masculine qualities grow up to hate themselves. Their own natural impulses. They are taught that it is wrong to react to bullying by punching the fucker in the mouth. “Use your words”, because that’s what girls do. Girls use their words to tease their classmates into an eating disorder, but hey, that’s okay. At least you didn’t punch anyone. Little boys are taught that’s it’s wrong to want to compete and to win! Beat the other guy! Savor the triumph. Deal with defeat. Nope, everyone gets a medal just for showing up, because that’s how girls play.
Luckily, boys are not so easily defeated, even when they face the boy-hating school system. They grow into men with ambition, confidence, a keen sense of the kill, and the resilience to get up and keep fighting. You’ll find them in banking, and politics, in athletics and engineering, in medicine and mathematics. All male dominated fields, despite the whining and bitching and moaning and bullshit preferences for women.
But not all boys are so lucky. Many are not just beaten down by the cultural hatred of men. They are broken by it. Hooligans and thugs. Lost boys. They don’t fit in the world women have created and they aren’t going to dope themselves up on female hormones to please any one.
This is why feminism is ultimately self-defeating. Women will never be equal until we understand that we are DIFFERENT from men and that’s okay. Yes, women are fabulous. So are men. And not men who act like women (although that’s okay if it’s your natural inclination). Men who act like men.
Strong
Confident
Brave
Bold
Doing
Seeking
Achieving
Protecting
Loving
Hooray for men! Don’t let the bitches grind you down. And for the love of god, if you see one of them coming at you with something to clear your nose, run for the fucking hills!
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I’d make it clear that by ‘kitchen-bitch’, I don’t mean men who are are househusbands or who feel at home in the kitchen. I mean men who genuinely think that women are always right and must be obeyed. I hadn’t heard the term ‘mangina’ when I wrote it, but that is a more evocative expression.
I’d also make it clear that while I think gender is innate, it’s also a spectrum. There are lots of men with stereotypical feminine qualities, and lots of women with stereotypical masculine qualities, and the fight I am engaged in is to let everyone be who they honestly are. I object strenuously to feminism trying to impose femininity on men and masculinity on women. Just let people be who they are, dammit! Is that so hard?
There’s a medical solution for that…..
When I saw this, my first reaction was “you have got to be fucking joking. This is a prank, right?” And then I thought, can you even imagine the inverse? A testosterone spray that men can shoot up a woman’s nose to make her much more likely to engage in some aggressive casual sex and then go home. Make her more like a man.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2183953/Oxytocin-Nose-happiness-Doctors-discover-nasal-spray-stop-couples-having-heated-arguments.html
Oxytocin spray is designed to make men more like women. And it fits perfectly into the cultural milieu forty years of feminism has wrought. Feminists don’t hate men they can drug into being more like women. They don’t hate men who think, act, speak, engage and behave like women. They don’t hate men who defer to their wishes, embrace their world view, validate their shitty decisions. They just hate men who are still men.
You can see it play out in schools in particular. God help the little boy who wants to jump and run and compete and touch and feel and interact with his world rather than sit quietly at a table with Isabella and Phoebe learning his ABCs. That little boy will be diagnosed with some bullshit “disorder” that basically translates into “typical little boy” and drugged into submission. By a largely female teaching staff and his mother of course. Daddy is probably a kitchen bitch who thinks everything Mommy does is right, if he’s even around at all.
Boys who grow up in a culture that venerates all feminine qualities and denigrates all masculine qualities grow up to hate themselves. Their own natural impulses. They are taught that it is wrong to react to bullying by punching the fucker in the mouth. “Use your words”, because that’s what girls do. Girls use their words to tease their classmates into an eating disorder, but hey, that’s okay. At least you didn’t punch anyone. Little boys are taught that’s it’s wrong to want to compete and to win! Beat the other guy! Savor the triumph. Deal with defeat. Nope, everyone gets a medal just for showing up, because that’s how girls play.
Luckily, boys are not so easily defeated, even when they face the boy-hating school system. They grow into men with ambition, confidence, a keen sense of the kill, and the resilience to get up and keep fighting. You’ll find them in banking, and politics, in athletics and engineering, in medicine and mathematics. All male dominated fields, despite the whining and bitching and moaning and bullshit preferences for women.
But not all boys are so lucky. Many are not just beaten down by the cultural hatred of men. They are broken by it. Hooligans and thugs. Lost boys. They don’t fit in the world women have created and they aren’t going to dope themselves up on female hormones to please any one.
This is why feminism is ultimately self-defeating. Women will never be equal until we understand that we are DIFFERENT from men and that’s okay. Yes, women are fabulous. So are men. And not men who act like women (although that’s okay if it’s your natural inclination). Men who act like men.
Strong
Confident
Brave
Bold
Doing
Seeking
Achieving
Protecting
Loving
Hooray for men! Don’t let the bitches grind you down. And for the love of god, if you see one of them coming at you with something to clear your nose, run for the fucking hills!
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