B40 W40W40: I hate when people -- men, women, anyone -- suggest that it's okay to abuse a man because he's a man. If my wife hits me, it doesn't matter whether she leaves a bruise or just a red mark, draws blood, breaks bone, incapacitates me, scares me, makes me cry or anything else. It's assault, battery and domestic violence. It's unacceptable and inexcusable. A man is not a punching bag. A man is a human being deserving the same respect and having the same dignity and worth as any woman. This is besides the fact that weapons -- including banal household objects that a person utilizes as weapons -- can absolutely cause serious damage to a person regardless of their size. And it's also beside the fact that men technically aren't even really allowed to defend themselves from female assailants. I hope some day to see more men fighting passionately and stridently online and in person to defend themselves and each other from abusers. This stuff has to stop.
Rain A’Stor: Who is more dangerous, a 115 pound shrieking angry woman, or a 200 pound man who consistently keeps his hands at his sides or removes himself from the conflict? She is abusively dangerous in actuality, he might be POTENTIALLY more dangerous, but if he has the self restraint to never go there… she’s the abuser. Being stronger is not abuse unless you use it for abuse. She does. He doesn’t.
Leanyse Alvarado: I’m glad people are analyzing the audio. Amber’s blame shifting and minimizing is literally what all abusers say. She sounds like my ex. I recorded him too but I’m not famous. If I put it on YouTube I would be blamed for choosing the wrong guy. I have hours of toxic conversations. Should I share? Let me know. Honestly I think it would help others. It’s one thing to describe narcissistic abuse, it’s another thing to demonstrate it.
Mike Litirous: What makes this worse is how she STILL has movie gigs and all this praise while there’s substantial undeniable evidence against her. Meanwhile, Johnny’s acting career is forever tarnished because of lies and ab*se HE is a victim to 🤦🏽♂️
B40 W40W40: I hate when people -- men, women, anyone -- suggest that it's okay to abuse a man because he's a man. If my wife hits me, it doesn't matter whether she leaves a bruise or just a red mark, draws blood, breaks bone, incapacitates me, scares me, makes me cry or anything else. It's assault, battery and domestic violence. It's unacceptable and inexcusable. A man is not a punching bag. A man is a human being deserving the same respect and having the same dignity and worth as any woman. This is besides the fact that weapons -- including banal household objects that a person utilizes as weapons -- can absolutely cause serious damage to a person regardless of their size. And it's also beside the fact that men technically aren't even really allowed to defend themselves from female assailants. I hope some day to see more men fighting passionately and stridently online and in person to defend themselves and each other from abusers. This stuff has to stop.
ReplyDeleteAgreed!
DeleteRain A’Stor: Who is more dangerous, a 115 pound shrieking angry woman, or a 200 pound man who consistently keeps his hands at his sides or removes himself from the conflict? She is abusively dangerous in actuality, he might be POTENTIALLY more dangerous, but if he has the self restraint to never go there… she’s the abuser. Being stronger is not abuse unless you use it for abuse. She does. He doesn’t.
ReplyDeleteBravo, spot on.
DeleteLeanyse Alvarado: I’m glad people are analyzing the audio. Amber’s blame shifting and minimizing is literally what all abusers say. She sounds like my ex. I recorded him too but I’m not famous. If I put it on YouTube I would be blamed for choosing the wrong guy. I have hours of toxic conversations. Should I share? Let me know. Honestly I think it would help others. It’s one thing to describe narcissistic abuse, it’s another thing to demonstrate it.
ReplyDeleteMike Litirous: What makes this worse is how she STILL has movie gigs and all this praise while there’s substantial undeniable evidence against her. Meanwhile, Johnny’s acting career is forever tarnished because of lies and ab*se HE is a victim to 🤦🏽♂️
ReplyDeleteDavid Kunkle: I will 100% not watch the second Aquaman if that woman is in it.
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